This blog comes to Colorado Ski Country from Kristen Lummis, founder of BraveSkiMom.com
In the past, when I’ve written about skiing and riding safety, I received some comments that skiing with me might be “boring” or a “bummer.”
I beg to differ.
I’m a Colorado native who grew up skiing and racing. For 14 years, I’ve been skiing with my kids and we’ve seen our share of tumbles, crashes and close calls. Never once have we thought about hanging up our boards.
What I have thought about (and what I try to teach my kids) is about balancing the risks, enjoying the rewards and acting responsibly while skiing.
From those three “R’s” come safety.
Skiing on a resort is a social sport. Not only are you skiing or riding with your friends or family, but you’re also skiing or riding with hundreds, if not thousands, of other people. While you’re on the mountain, you’re part of a larger community, and communities need rules. Hence the Skier and Rider Responsibility Code. These rules exist, not to ruin your ski day, but to make your ski day safer and more rewarding.
Teaching kids about the Code is easy. There’s this nifty video from the National Ski Areas Association and there’s also an excellent picture book for younger kids: Safely Ski From A to Z, by Mary Palmer. Sure, you can just talk about the code or read the signs aloud as you go up the lift, but this book makes it a lot more fun (and also can help alleviate anxiety about putting on the gear or going to lessons — it’s good stuff)!
We have a new driver in our home and as we’ve taught him to drive, we’ve been doing our own internal gut check on balancing risk with rewards. Driving is scarier than skiing, but we’re not going to stop him from driving. Instead, we’ve tried to teach him to drive defensively. This doesn’t mean driving only 39 mph and double braking as he pulls into intersections. No, as we’ve taught our 16 year-old, defensive driving is smart driving, knowing the rules of the road and paying attention.
It seems to me the parallels with skiing and riding are many.
We all know the rewards of skiing and riding: the speed, the feeling of flying with your feet on the ground (or sometimes above the ground), the sheer joy in carving perfect turns or leaving a set of tracks in fresh powder. If we didn’t love snowsports, we wouldn’t do them.
But this is where balance comes in. If you’re skiing in a group, can everyone handle the tree shot you’re about to take? Are there too many people on this run to carve big GS turns? What are the conditions like? Can you handle them? Not only are these questions we’ve asked our kids, but we’ve tried to get them to ask these questions of themselves. This is especially important as they’ve grown older and ski independently with their friends
We’ve tried to teach them to evaluate the conditions, the crowds, the terrain and their energy. It’s a cliché, but a cliché with validity: the last run of the day is the most dangerous ‘cause you’re tired. With kids, it’s important that they learn to listen to themselves and their friends. If someone is ready to quit, doesn’t like the terrain or simply wants to take a break, there should be no shame in bailing.
For there’s no reward in pushing it too far and getting hurt.
If you’re a parent, you know how hard it can be to teach kids to take responsibility for themselves, for their stuff and for their homework. Alas, these can be hard lessons with lots of tears.
Still, in every aspect of life, accepting and taking responsibility for oneself is of paramount importance and a hallmark of becoming an adult.
Responsibility on the ski slopes should be fairly cut and dried. Follow the Code, listen to Ski Patrol, treat others with respect, and be aware of those around you. Don’t push your limits too far and ski or ride within your ability. Make sure your equipment is in good shape, working properly and fits your current size. Keep yourself in good shape and (listen to you mother!) always wear a helmet.
If you can do all of these things, we tell our kids, (and they’re really not that hard), you’ll enjoy a lifetime of rewarding, exhilarating skiing. You’ll also be set with some good lessons for a successful life.
At least that’s what I tell myself, as a mom.